Two or more people. One thread. Settle it, plan it, go.
A group chat with a fair AI in the room. Settle the argument, co-parent the week, and make the plan: SharedChat suggests concerts, games and spots near you, your people tap in, and the chat opens with the first yes. Our smart router picks the strongest model for each question, from OpenAI, Anthropic or Google.
You said five minutes forty minutes ago. We're going to miss the reservation.
I was ready at 7. You changed your shirt twice and then started a load of laundry.
Ruling: you're both right about different things. The 7:00 you agreed to keeps sliding, and the last twenty minutes weren't on Ben. Fair call: set a hard "shoes on" time fifteen minutes before you leave, and whoever's ready first grabs the dog and the lights. Nobody's the villain.
Talk it out. Then get out the door.
Talk it out, together
Six rooms with an AI that hears everyone: settle the argument, keep co-parenting calm, think through the 2 a.m. questions as a pair.
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Make the plan, actually go
Concerts, games, happy hours and dinners near you, matched to what your people like. Tap who's in, pick a time, and a chat opens with the first yes.
See how Plans works →
Same people, same app. Every plan gets its own chat, and the AI is in that one too.
Every other AI talks to you alone. This is the one you're both in.
No more screenshotting the chatbot to win the argument. Put it in the room, let it hear both sides, and get an answer everyone can live with.
A chatbot only hears your side. So it tends to take your side.
Ask a chatbot "who's right?" and it will usually agree with the person typing, because that's the only version of the story it has. Couples therapists have started writing about it. The fix is a room with both of you in it.
Alone You and a chatbot
- It only gets your version, so it tends to agree with you.
- You screenshot the "win" and send it. Now it's a fight about the screenshot.
- The other person never gets to answer the same AI.
- Decisions get made "with AI's help" that your partner never saw.
Together A SharedChat room
- Everyone's in the same thread, so the AI hears every side.
- It's built to be fair: the Judge won't rule until both sides are in.
- One answer, seen by everyone at the same moment. Nothing to screenshot.
- Relationship and co-parenting rooms are told, in writing, not to pick sides.
For the parts of life you can't Google.
Each room has its own voice: a fair judge, a calm coordinator, a friend who is good with plans. Invite whoever's involved and go.
Settle It
The neutral judge for whatever you two (or five) can't agree on. Hears both sides, then rules.
Relationships
A space for the two of you to feel heard. It won't take sides, and that's written into the room.
Co-Parenting
Neutral ground between two households. Keeps it about the kids, and offers a calmer rewrite before a heated message sends.
Parenting
The 2 a.m. questions, worked through together instead of alone, with real sources and an honest "we're not doctors."
Friend Groups
The group chat, except it reaches a decision. Trips, splits, bets, plans.
General
One smart AI the whole thread shares, for everything else: research, writing, images, PDFs.
Don't take our word for it. Pick a fight.
Two of the rooms, working the way they do in the app. These are sample rulings, not a live AI. The real thing asks follow-ups and rules on your own mess.
⚖️ Ask the Judge
Sample rulings · not live🏠 The calm-down step
Co-Parenting room · not liveType anything heated, or send what's there. Nothing is blocked and nothing goes out without you.
Take a breath. Want to rephrase?
Your message reads as heated. A calmer version keeps the focus on the schedule:
This is the actual app. Not a mockup.
The group chat that actually makes plans.
Every week SharedChat suggests things to do near you: concerts, games, shows, happy hours, dinners and days out, matched to what each of you likes. Pick one, tap your friends, choose a time, and the chat opens with the first yes.
Real app screens · sample plans in Miami
Built to be fair to everyone in the chat.
Plenty of apps let a group share an AI. This one is designed, and tested, to be fair to everyone in it.
Both sides, or no ruling
In Settle It, the Judge asks for the other side before it decides. You can't get a verdict on a one-person argument.
No sides in the hard rooms
Relationships and Co-Parenting are told, in writing, never to pick a winner, and to keep custody questions with a lawyer.
Calm before you send
In Co-Parenting, a heated message gets held with a calmer version you can use, or send anyway. Nothing is blocked, nothing is sent for you.
Everyone sees it live
Replies land in the shared thread for everyone at once, and you're notified when someone invites you in. One answer, no forwarding.
Invite in one tap
Send a link or a text. Your partner, co-parent, or the whole group taps it and they're in. A free account takes about ten seconds.
Built for the hard stuff
Tested live on the hard cases (coercive control, self-harm, custody fights): it points to real help for abuse or crisis, and sends medical and legal questions to a professional.
Three taps to a fairer conversation.
Start a room
Pick what it's for. Each room comes with the right voice already built in.
Invite whoever's in it
Send one link. Your partner, co-parent, or the whole friend group joins in a tap.
Settle it together
Everyone sees the same answer at the same time, so there's nothing to forward or screenshot.
You already know which one is yours.
The money fight
Six streaming services nobody agreed to. Both of you make your case in the room; the Judge does the math out loud and rules.
The custody weekend
A schedule change turns tense. Before the heated message sends, you get a calmer version, and the coordinator keeps it about the kids.
The trip nobody can plan
Eight people, four budgets, one group chat that's been going for a week. Drop the options in; it picks and shows the split.
The 2 a.m. wake-ups
Both parents, one thread, one calm answer that names its sources and says when something is a pediatrician question.
People already ask the internet and AI for help.
of married U.S. adults surveyed had searched online for marriage help before talking to their partner.
of married U.S. adults surveyed felt AI tools understood their relationship struggles better than their spouse.
of 12- to 21-year-olds surveyed reported using AI chatbots for mental health advice.
Sources: Marriage.com, 2026 survey of 1,000 married U.S. adults; RAND-led study, JAMA Pediatrics, June 2026 (1,009 people aged 12 to 21, surveyed November 2025). SharedChat is made for adults, not kids, and it isn't therapy or a mental health service. It puts everyone in one conversation with an AI built to consider what each person says.
The things people ask before they invite someone in.
Does the AI take sides?
It's built not to. In Settle It, the Judge won't rule until it's heard both sides, and it rules on the argument, not the person. In Relationships and Co-Parenting it's instructed never to pick a winner. It will tell you when you're both partly right, and it will say so to both of you at once.
What is Plans?
The part of SharedChat that gets you out the door. It suggests concerts, games, shows, happy hours, dinners and days out near you, matched to what you and your friends like. Pick one, tap who's in and choose a time; your friends answer in one tap, and the plan gets its own chat once the first person says yes. Concert and game tickets link out to the seller.
Can the other person see everything I write?
Yes, that's the point. A room is a shared thread; everyone in it sees the same messages and the same AI replies, live. If you want a private conversation, start a room by yourself.
Do they need an account?
To read what you've shared, no. To reply, they'll create a free account in about ten seconds. That's how we keep threads to the people you invited.
Is this therapy, legal advice, or medical advice?
No. It's a fair, well-read third voice in the room. The Parenting room names its sources, says plainly it's not a doctor, and tells you when a question belongs with your pediatrician. The Co-Parenting room keeps custody and legal questions with an attorney. If someone's in danger, it points to real help, not a chatbot.
What's free?
All six rooms, unlimited invites, 10 AI replies a day, and 1 Plans outing idea a week with friends. Plus ($9.99/mo) and Pro ($19.99/mo) raise the limits and add image generation.
Which AI is it?
SharedChat's smart router picks the strongest model for each request from OpenAI, Anthropic and Google. You never sign in to an AI provider or hand them your account, and you never have to choose a model.
Is it private?
Rooms are private to the people in them. A thread is only viewable by link if you choose to share it that way. Everything is encrypted in transit and at rest, the AI only ever sees a first name and initial, and we never sell or train on your conversations. You can delete your account any time.
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- 3 outing ideas a week
- Unlimited replies
- 20 AI images
- Everything in Free
Some things shouldn't be settled in a group text.
Start a room, bring your people, and let the AI be the fair one for once.