Nearly half of married adults have already asked an AI about their relationship, almost always alone, which is why it tends to agree with whoever's typing. SharedChat's Relationships room is the version with both of you in it: an AI told in writing never to pick a winner, that explains what each of you is asking for.
Nothing is said to the AI that the other person can't see. That single fact changes how people write.
The room is instructed never to declare who's right. Instead it names what each of you is asking for, and what you're each hearing.
It's told to talk like a thoughtful friend, not a clinician: plain language, real math when money's involved, no diagnoses.
Coercive control, threats, or anyone's safety: the room doesn't "find a compromise." It says so plainly and points to real help.
Used alone, it's risky: the AI only hears you, so it validates you, and a third of people already say a chatbot "gets" them better than their spouse. Used together, both of you in the same room with an AI that won't pick sides, it's closer to a fair, well-read friend. That's what this room is built for.
No. It doesn't diagnose, treat, or replace a counselor. It helps two people say what they mean and hear what the other one said. If you need a therapist, it'll say so.
Send the link. Reading takes no account. Many people join once they see the AI isn't on anyone's side. If they won't, a private room still works; just know it only hears you.
Rooms are private to the people in them. Nothing is shared by link unless you choose to share it. You can delete your account and data any time.