💜 Relationships

AI relationship advice, with both of you in the chat.

AI relationship advice can miss important context when only one person tells the story. SharedChat lets both of you talk to the same AI in one chat, where everyone sees the replies. The Relationships room is instructed not to pick a winner and can help you work through what each person wants.

How it works

Tell the AI what's going on. Both of you.

One conversation

You both message the same AI and see its replies. Nobody has to forward a screenshot of what the chatbot said.

No winner declared

The AI is instructed not to pick sides. It can point out where you're talking past each other and ask what each of you needs.

Skip the therapy voice

The room uses plain language, can compare numbers when money's involved, and doesn't diagnose either of you.

Some situations aren't about compromise

If someone describes threats or abuse, the room is instructed to prioritize safety and point them toward appropriate help.

A sample exchange

The job in another city.

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ElenaI got the offer in Denver. This is the job I have been working toward for years.
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TheoAnd I would be leaving the team I just got promoted to run. We both worked for those.
RelationshipsElena, this job is something you've worked toward for years. Theo, you just got promoted to lead your team, and moving would mean leaving that behind. Before you decide, I have two questions. Elena, when would you need to accept the offer? Theo, is transferring or working remotely even possible in your role?
Sample conversation · The AI can ask follow-up questions in the app

In a 2026 Marriage.com survey of 1,000 married U.S. adults, 33% said AI tools understood their relationship struggles better than their spouse.

Questions

Before you invite your partner

Why do we keep having the same argument?

There isn't one explanation for every recurring argument. You can both describe what's happening, and the AI can ask questions about where you disagree. For more, read How to stop having the same argument.

Is it okay to use AI for relationship advice?

AI can miss context or agree too readily with the person asking. In SharedChat, both of you can explain your side and question the AI's response. The Relationships room is instructed not to pick winners, but its answers aren't guaranteed to be right. It's a tool for conversation, not a relationship expert.

Is this couples therapy?

No. It doesn't diagnose, treat, or replace a counselor. It helps two people say what they mean and hear what the other one said. If you need a therapist, it'll say so.

What if my partner won't join?

Send them a link. They can read what you've shared without an account and create a free account to reply. If they don't want to join, you can still use a private room, but the AI will only have your account of the situation.

Is it private?

Rooms are private to the people in them. Nothing is shared by link unless you choose to share it. You can delete your account and data any time.