⚖️ Settle It

Settle an argument with AI that hears both sides.

Settle an argument with AI by bringing both people into one chat with the same Judge. Each person makes their case, the Judge asks for the other side before ruling, and everyone sees the verdict in the shared thread.

How it works

Tell the Judge what happened.

Make your case

Start a room and invite the other person by link or text. Each of you explains what happened in your own words.

Both sides first

If only one person has spoken, the Judge asks for the other side. No verdict until both people have had their say.

Get the verdict

Once both sides have spoken, tap Get the Verdict. The Judge explains its decision and gives a Sentence, a small consequence or rule for next time.

Someone can win

The Judge can side with one person, split the ruling, or call it close. It explains its reasoning in the shared chat.

A sample exchange

The thermostat, settled.

S
Sam68 is a normal temperature. Put on a sweater like an adult.
R
Riley72. I refuse to live in a walk-in fridge to save eleven dollars.
The JudgeRuling: Try 70 during the day and 67 overnight. Riley gets a warmer house while you're awake, and Sam gets a lower setting at night. Sentence: Sam buys Riley a very good blanket. Riley stops touching the dial after 10 p.m.
Sample ruling · In the app, the Judge can ask follow-up questions
Good for

Anything two people keep re-arguing.

Dishes, thermostat disputes, who owes dinner, movie trivia, group bets, and the argument about pineapple on pizza. Bring in the people involved and let the Judge hear their cases. For serious legal, medical, or safety questions, use qualified help instead.

What it won't do

The Judge is instructed not to rule on custody disputes, legal matters, or safety concerns, and to direct those questions to appropriate help. It waits for both sides and can give a split ruling when the evidence doesn't favor either person.

Questions

Before you ask for a verdict

Why do we keep having the same argument?

There isn't one explanation for every recurring argument. You can both describe what's happening, and the AI can ask questions about where you disagree. For more, read How to stop having the same argument.

Can AI actually settle an argument fairly?

Hearing both sides gives the Judge more context, but AI can still make mistakes. Settle It requires both people to participate before a verdict is available. Everyone sees the decision and can challenge the reasoning.

Does the other person need the app?

They tap your link and can read immediately. To reply, they create a free account in about ten seconds. iPhone, Android and web all work.

What if we disagree with the ruling?

Argue with it. You can ask follow-up questions or challenge its reasoning. The Judge can reconsider when new information changes the case.

Is Settle It free?

Yes. Free includes all seven rooms, 10 AI replies and 3 Judge verdicts per day, and 1 AI image per month. Plus ($9.99/month) includes unlimited AI replies and 20 AI images per month.

How is this different from ChatGPT group chats?

ChatGPT began retiring group chats on July 9, 2026. Poe supports group chats with up to 200 people. SharedChat's Judge has instructions for disputes, including waiting for both sides before ruling. You don't have to write those instructions yourself. See the full comparison.